Tuesday, October 28, 2008

Something that annoys me

When you 1st get married people ask when are you going to have a baby. We started trying the night of our wedding. We now have a daughter (as you all know). Now people are telling us that we HAVE to have a 2nd baby. I didn't realize that people bug you about having a 2nd baby. Everyone is like you NEED to have 2. These are people who don't even have kids of their own. I wish people would worry about their own lives & have 1 child of their own & then see if they still think we should have 2. At this point we can even afford to have a 2nd child. We are trying for a 2nd baby, till the end of the year.

5 comments:

Michele said...

Thanks so much for stopping by my blog, I'm enjoying reading yours as well!

Chris said...

We got that all the time after Blake was born. Except it was always~~When are you going to try for your girl? You wait until you are ready. We waited almost 5 years until we had our 2nd child. Tha is how it worked for us. Do what works for you.

Anonymous said...

Yeah, that would **** me off too. Funny, my family (including my in-laws) don't really ask if Walter and I will have any kids, mostly bec they're tired of me saying that "we're not 'desiring' to have any". But there is the part that aggravates me too - when I say that I am not 'desiring' to have children, there's a look that comes over some peoples' faces like "what's wrong with you", or "you're a bad person bec you don't want kids". So then I feel the need to have to explain why. And then they look like they agree with me then. Why is it necessary to explain every part of your life. Why can't just a simple answer to their question do? Same thing with religion, but that's a whole other story.

jennykate77 said...

I'm with ya girl! We waited 6 years to have Isaiah and now he's 4! So, you can imagine the harrassement we get about having another one...ugh...it's never ending. I say...let's get a puppy! :)

sprinkles said...

So Kimberly, when are you having another baby? You NEED to have another baby!!!

Ha ha! Just kiddin' ya! Yeah, people ask me all the time why I'm not married or don't have a boyfriend or why I don't have kids. Like it's really any of their business!