When you 1st get married people ask when are you going to have a baby. We started trying the night of our wedding. We now have a daughter (as you all know). Now people are telling us that we HAVE to have a 2nd baby. I didn't realize that people bug you about having a 2nd baby. Everyone is like you NEED to have 2. These are people who don't even have kids of their own. I wish people would worry about their own lives & have 1 child of their own & then see if they still think we should have 2. At this point we can even afford to have a 2nd child. We are trying for a 2nd baby, till the end of the year.